Tuesday, March 11, 2025

A Walk Here and There

I have been spending a lot of time out of doors these last 6 months or so. For a while I was walking a semi-cleared trail next to our development, but that was stopped when I ran into a hunter on that property who told me that it was hunting season, and it wasn't a good idea to be on the private land at the time. (We haven't been back since.) I then decided to make regular forays to Forney Creek instead. The trails are sparsely populated and the park is close to our home.  It is about 5-7 minutes away depending on the traffic which is perfect for weekday outings. 

 I would say that I head out there with Max and Miles about 3-4 times a week. We walk between 3 and 4.75 miles depending on the trail we pick, and we tend to walk in the early morning hours just as the dawn is breaking. Sometimes, though, we do walk those trails in the later morning or afternoon hours and the change of lighting and change of time can make it feel like a completely different environment, yet exactly the same in some weird juxtaposition. 

I almost always find things that fascinate me when I walk in Forney Creek. Whether it is the way the light hits a certain part of the pathway, or a flower that has just begun to bloom, or a hollowed-out tree trunk that I just know houses some sweet little creature - I often find myself taking my phone out of my pocket to capture some little thing that catches my eye. Mostly these things are just average ordinary things, but that is the exact thing that I find so magical about them. These images I find in my camera after a morning or afternoon on the trail are just average, every day, ordinary moments in time. The exact ones that are so easy to forget but are the ones that make up a life; that also makes them the most important ones to try and remember. 

If you look carefully, you can see the spider web I was trying to capture. In the upper part of the picture there is a yellowish ball - that is actually a spider!




Do you see that huge freaking brown spider?! 

This is part of the land beside our development. It has recently been cleared (or at least a portion of it has been) and survey roads roam all through the large tract of land. 




Maxi taking a break from our hiking shenanigans. 

Miles goading Maxi to play with him. 

Of course, Miles won. 






Maxi thought he finally got rid of his rascally little brother but...

Nope!




"Max, play with me, play with me, play with me!"



This goddamn snake scared the shit out of me. It was obviously in the tree branches, but it was super close to the trail which I did not like at all. 

I freaking hate snakes. Hate them. These rat snakes are especially loathsome because they grow to be so long which in my mind the bigger the snake the scarier it is - wait what the hell am I saying?! All snakes are scary. Thank goodness they are nonvenomous, but I still hate seeing them. 




Back by our house again...










And back to Forney Creek...










 

Monday, March 10, 2025

Senior Night


Senior night. Like with so many pivotal moments in life, it seems like just yesterday that Joshua was starting his four years at Belmont Abbey, and last October he played his last home game. It was a good night for all as all 18 seniors got playtime, those who played on the developmental team even got a chance to start which I thought was a really nice touch. 

Because there were so many boys playing no one got a ton of playtime, but that was okay by me. I was just glad that all of the boys got on the field and were honored for the hard work they put in these past four seasons, especially those from the developmental team who have never seen first team playtime. 

Almost immediately after Josh was put into the game, he had an assist on the fourth and final goal of the game. The boys won 4-0 which is always nice when you can end your collegiate home games with a 'W'. 

Besides the five of us (Andy, Sarah, Elizabeth, Bobby, and Me), my parents came down to watch Josh play (as they have at least once every season) and also my in-laws (who saw his very first game). Josh's girlfriend, Liz, was also there to cheer him on. 

To be honest, because of what an emotional roller coaster these four years have been, but especially his senior year, I was not sorry to be done with home games at Belmont Abbey. I was sad for Josh because I know how much he loves the sport of soccer and how important his teammates are to him, but I wasn't sad about ending the heartache these four years have brought. 

The end of an era ended that night, but a new one will begin again soon as Josh seeks out coaching positions for the game he loves so much. 



A photo of Josh, Jessie, and Drew celebrating after Jessie just scored off of Josh's assist. Josh is on the left smiling widely with his head turned facing Drew on the right who has his arm wrapped around Josh. Jessie is behind Josh with his arms wrapped around Josh celebrating their goal. Jessie's left hand is wrapped in white sports tape. Josh has his left wrist wrapped like he used to do, but has no writing on it. The boys are on the soccer field.
Josh and two of his teammates after having supplied the assist to the young man behind Josh who scored a goal. 


Liz, Andy, Josh (holding the sign Elizabeth made), Elizabeth, Sarah, and Endre (holding his sign) - front left to right. Liz is wearing a black winter coat with black leggings and her straight hair down. Andy has his arms around Liz and Josh and is wearing his new black winter coat with jeans and black and gray sneakers. Josh is holding his sign in his right hand and has his left hand around Elizabeth. He is wearing his red #14 jersey and red shorts with red socks and white cleats. His hair is tousled and wet with sweat. Elizabeth is wearing a black hoodie and black flared leggings with white sneakers. Her hair is pulled back from her face in a ponytail. She has her arms around Josh and you. You are wearing one of Josh's Belmont Abbey sweatshirt with black leggings and your purply/gray sneakers. Your hair is pulled back into a braid. Your arms are around Endre and Elizabeth. Endre is last. His right arm is around you and his left hand is holding his sign. He is wearing his red #24 jersey and red shorts with red socks and white cleats. You are all standing on the sidewalk in the space between the chain link fence and the bleachers. The sky is dark and the field lights are still on.

From left to right: Dad, Josh, and Me standing on the sidewalk in between the chain link fence and the bleachers. The sky is dark and there is a field light glaring in the background of the pic. Dad is wearing his glasses, a brown zip up sweater, blue jeans, and brown dress boots. Josh is wearing the same uniform as in the previous picture and is holding his soccer sign with his arm around me. I am wearing a black and white striped t-shirt with a black long sleeve open sweater with a pair of blue jeans and black slip on shoes. My hair is straightened and down. The black flowered purse you gave me is hanging diagonally across my body and my arm is around your brother. We are all smiling while looking at the camera.

From left to right: Papa, Josh, and Nana. Papa is wearing a black baseball cap with a zipped up brown leather coat, blue jeans, and black sneakers. His arm around Josh. Josh is holding his sign in his right hand while his left arm is wrapped around Nana. Nana is wearing a pair of glasses, her hair is curly and short. She has on a long-sleeved Belmont Abbey shirt with a pair of blue jeans and a pair of brown slip-on shoes. To the right of them is a royal blue foldup sports chair. It is nighttime and there are various strangers in the background of the photo.

Liz and Josh (from left to right) standing on the sidewalk between the chain link fence and the bleachers. The game must have just ended as there is a large crowd of onlookers waiting at the fence for their soccer players to approach them. The sky is dark and the field lights are still on. Liz has her long, straight hair down. She is wearing a black winter jacket with black leggings and white sneakers. Josh is in his uniform. Between the two of them is Josh's soccer sign. They are both smiling.